Christian dating site advice definition
As for your gentleman friend seeking “chemistry,” I would inquire as to what kind of chemistry he is referring to.
I have had great spiritual, emotional and intellectual chemistry with friends of the opposite sex, which has resulted in amazing plutonic relationships over the years.
Anyone that God is bringing to you is worth the extra time in building a friendship.
Now some men may joke and say they are too old to wait too long. You will never regret building a friendship—a friendship that can be in your life forever.
I applaud you for your efforts to delve into this realm.
I know this because being in full-time singles ministry I do my own surveys.
From people posting old photos to lying about their age, to even lying about being a follower of Christ—I have heard it all.
The beauty of online dating is that you can communicate with several suitors at the same time until you find the one you would like to pursue or allow to be pursued by more seriously.
SEE ALSO: How to Respond to Unrequited Love As wonderful as communicating from a distance can be, you will only be able to go so far in getting to know someone through these conversations.
While I see you have pure motives in wanting to find someone to spend the rest of your life with, you are right in your concerns with the process.